Build your wedding around your priorities, then give each decision a deadline and each task a person.
Use these planning stages alongside your event date and the deadlines in your signed agreements. Confirm included services in your written venue agreement.
Your wedding planning timeline
01
Before you commit
Start with the essentials
Agree on your approximate guest count, total budget, and the three parts of the day you care about most. Tour the venue before assuming how an indoor or outdoor layout will work.
Bring date options and your guest estimate to Nancy.
Ask about access times, included items, rentals, and your proposed seating layout.
Contact your caterer and other key vendors early. Use the same event details when comparing their proposals.
Request itemized quotes, payment dates, and cancellation terms.
Ask who supplies, sets up, and collects every rental item.
Choose who will coordinate the day and communicate with vendors.
03
As bookings become plans
Shape the day
Walk through the day from vendor arrival to the last pickup. Put the choices that affect other people into a shared schedule.
Coordinate ceremony sound, photography, and dinner timing.
Ask about power, setup locations, sound limits, and cleanup expectations.
Plan guest comfort: routes, restrooms, seating, weather, and dietary needs.
04
Before your vendors’ final deadlines
Confirm the details
Replace estimates with agreed counts and written responsibilities. Each supplier may have a different deadline.
Send final guest and dietary counts by the contracted deadlines.
Confirm menu, floor plan, delivery windows, and contact numbers.
Name the person who makes weather decisions and the person who tells every vendor.
05
In the final week and on the day
Share one clear plan
Give your vendors and helpers a single current schedule and a short list of who makes which decisions.
Confirm arrival, serving, finish, and pickup times.
Tell the caterer what to do if photos run late.
Assign garbage, cleanup, leftovers, and end-of-event checks.
Avoid the “I thought you had it” moments
Who handles what?
Ask each person or business to confirm its own role. This guide does not imply that a full-service planner is included with the venue.
You and your chosen coordinator
Set priorities and budget, choose and book vendors, maintain the guest list, and assign helpers. Decide who can approve changes on the day.
The venue
Ask Nancy to confirm the spaces, access, included items, approved layouts, and venue requirements in your agreement. Confirm what setup or coordination support is actually included.
The caterer and other vendors
Have each vendor confirm its services, equipment, staffing, and deadlines. Catering is separate from venue rental; couples choose and book their caterer. See caterer arrangements.
Questions to bring to your tour
Space & guest comfort
How would our guest count fit in the proposed layout?
What will our full-party weather backup require?
Which routes and seating arrangements work for guests with mobility needs?
Where will cooking, buffet service, and the bar operate?
Logistics & responsibilities
What is included, and what will we need to rent?
When can each vendor arrive, set up, and collect equipment?
What are the current sound, lighting, decoration, and alcohol-service requirements?
Who makes and communicates event-day changes?
All outside music must move indoors by 10 p.m. Music and partying can continue past 10 p.m. Review the music rule.
Agree on your approximate guest count, budget, and priorities, then tour the venue and compare complete written proposals. Confirm the spaces, weather backup, rentals, access, and responsibilities for your event before committing.
Is a full-service wedding planner included?
Do not assume full-service planning is included. Ask Nancy what support the venue provides in your agreement, and separately decide who will maintain the timeline, coordinate vendors, and make event-day decisions.
How should we plan for outdoor wedding weather?
Plan seating, cooking, and meal service for your entire guest count. The owner-confirmed indoor capacity is 199 guests; a larger outdoor party cannot be assumed to fit inside. Review your specific layout and any additional rentals with Nancy and your caterer.